How to Be the Love You Seekis a paradigm-shifting guide to healing relationships, starting with the one with oneself. Dr. LePera, a New York Times bestselling author, challenges conventional relationship advice by advocating for authenticity over compromise. Drawing on the latest scientific research, she explores how unmet needs from early relationships shape current dysfunctional patterns and contribute to internal threats.
The book provides a roadmap to break free from trauma bonds, fostering relationships based on respect and compassion. Dr. LePera offers practical tools, exercises, and insights to help readers create emotional resilience, build deep connections, and cultivate healthy interdependence. Ultimately, the book emphasizes tapping into the innate capacity to love as the key to healing and becoming the love one seeks.
